Ep. 74 | Self-Love Is Freedom
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"THE MORE I LOVED MYSELF, THE EASIER IT WAS FOR ME TO ACCEPT OTHER PEOPLE LOVING ME.
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In this solo episode, you'll hear me talk about protecting relationships, EQ over IQ, embracing cycles, and how wholeness attracts aligned love.
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In this solo episode of It Takes A Village, Delina vulnerably shares the moment she told a man she's been dating "I love you", a slip that revealed her deep healing, softening, and shift toward feminine energy after years of over-indexing on masculine drive. She explores protecting early relationships from external opinions, prioritizing emotional intelligence (EQ) over IQ in partners, and how self-love transformed her attractions, boundaries, creativity, and body acceptance.
Delina reflects on resenting her cycle and womanhood's rhythms, embracing creation's power in femininity, and moving from speed-fueled burnout to queen-like stillness and intuition. This intimate dive celebrates self-love as the foundation for reciprocal love, offering resonance for anyone healing, softening, or evolving in relationships and identity.
ShoW TOPICS
Protecting new relationships from outside noise
Shifting from IQ to EQ in dating dynamics
Masculine vs. feminine energy in work and love
Embracing cycles, periods, and womanhood's power
Burnout recovery and intuitive stillness
Self-love expanding capacity for partnership
TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Introduction and Personal Update
01:16 Show Reminders and Announcements
01:44 Dating and Personal Reflections
07:08 Embracing Feminine Energy
13:56 Self-Love and Personal Growth
16:16 Conclusion and Future Plans
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